“I wish it need not have happened in my time,” said Frodo.
“So do I,” said Gandalf, “and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”
― J.R.R. Tolkien, The Fellowship of the Ring
Every year on January 3rd, Tolkien fans from around the world are invited to raise a glass and toast the birthday of this beloved author at 21:00 (9 pm) local time.

J.R.R. Tolkien lost his mother at an early age. Friendships were to be a steadying influence throughout his life. He was a member of the famous Inklings, a literary society that included among the notables, C.S. Lewis and his elder brother Warren Lewis, Owen Barfield, Charles Williams and Tolkien’s son, Christopher. There was an earlier society, The T.C.B.S. (Tea Club, Barrovian Society) named after their meeting place at the Barrow Stores. The T.C.B.S. members continued to correspond closely, exchanging and critiquing each other’s literary work until 1916. WWI took a toll on this band of brothers. Two of J.R.R. Tolkien’s friends, Robert Gilson and Geoffrey Smith, were not destined to outlive the war. In Geoffrey Smith’s last letter to J.R.R. Tolkien, the message was prophetic: “Yes, publish… You I am sure are chosen, like Saul among the Children of Israel. Make haste, before you come out to this orgy of death cruelty… May God bless you, John Ronald, and may you say the things I have tried to say long after I am not here to say them, if such is my lot.”
In his writings, J.R.R. Tolkien celebrated and acknowledged the great deeds that were done in the name of friendship. He made good on his promise to his much-loved friend, Geoffrey Smith.
I have never read Tolkien, but my brother was a big fan growing up so I have happy memories of the two of us reading side by side.
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What precious memories! I read LOTR when I was 15. I reread them with my son when he was about 12 as a way to have him read aloud. He would read one page and I would take the next. There is something about speaking words that add significance. LOTR is an embodiment of Joseph Campbell’s a Hero’s Journey. Facing darkness without hope of survival. But it deals with a great many themes that speak to the narrative of humanity: friendships, forgiveness, power, death and immortality, father and sons, war, loss and farewell, nature versus technology and the list goes on. For me, the most significant was his thoughts on euthanasia, which is dealt with in the appendix that deals with what happened next.
J.R.R. Tolkien enjoyed writing long descriptive passages that could have been reduced, however no one would dare edit the grand gentleman. I have the book of his letters which give insight into his thoughts. His friendship with C.S. Lewis was a pivotal point in both men’s lives: LOTR and Narnia. Ah, would it not be amazing to be a fly on the wall when they were sharing a pint. Thanks for stopping by, Letizia.
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How wonderful that you read his letters as well. The friendship with CS Lewis sounds interesting!
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Tolkien deserves a toast, as do wonderful friends like you ❤
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Thank you, Christy!! Sending hugs and a toast across the strait!
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Very interesting. That is one of my most favorite bits of dalogue from The Fellowship of the Rings.
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I agree – It is a wonderful quote! I keep it close by my side at my computer.
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Thank you for this post. I thought I knew a lot about the Inklings but I have learned more from this post! I like the photos of the tree made famous by Tolkein. I understand it no longer stands so brave and strong. Photos are important to remember things like this. I toasted our friend with thousands of others at 9 last night!
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Thank you for joining in the toast. Yes – the Tolkien tree is no more! We visited the tree in 2013 – it seemed so strong at the time. I understand that J.R.R. sat under this tree and wrote about Treebeard! http://www.independent.co.uk/property/gardening/tolkiens-black-pine-why-do-we-love-old-trees-9650390.html
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Here’s to Tolkien! A wonderful gift to be able to bring so much enjoyment to the world!
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Thank you for joining the toast! Did you hear that Netflix and Amazon of vying for the rights of a LOTR miniseries? The more complex our world of technology, the more we look to our myths and legends. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/tv/2017/11/08/lord-rings-tv-series-amazon-netflix-battle-land-rights/
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You’re probably right there, it’s nice to have an escape. I’m looking forward to a future miniseries 😊
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Ah, the Maestro! A fitting tribute, Becky, thank you. We have a fansastc dramatised audio version of LOTR to which I am planning to listen through the year – happy days are those spent with riches like this! X
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Oh!!! That sounds wonderful, Liz! There is something about settling into a comfortable chair, closing our eyes, and letting the voices come across the room. The oral traditions are still alive and well in our modern age. I think I will join you. I agree – “happy days are those spent with riches like this.”
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I will raise my mug of tea to you while listening x
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An excellent idea!
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A lovely toast!
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Thanks you for joining us in this toast!!! Hugs!
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Such an incredible person in so many ways!
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He was indeed. I first read LOTR when I was 15 – and his work continues to influence and inspire. Hugs!
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